HEART OF STEELE

This is the time of year when I have typically made a few obligatory New Year’s resolutions–which typically have the lifespan of a mayfly.

But I’ve seen on social media this new thing people do, which is choosing a word (or words) for the new year. Writer Robin Flanagan says this can relieve the stress and disappointment that comes when you resolve to lose 10 pounds and find a few months later that you’ve gained 15.

Also, she says, “Picking a word of the year can bring clarity and focus to who we want to become and what we want to accomplish in life. A carefully chosen word is a type of mental mentor — something to help us stay motivated as we move toward our goals.”

Finding a word forces you to get a handle on your values, your vision for what you want your life to look like. Instead of resolving to lose weight, for instance, you could choose the word “health”–and think about it when you’re faced with a decision about what to have for supper.

It might not keep you from ordering that pizza, but maybe you order it with veggies on top, instead of pepperoni.

Reading about the whole “word of the year” concept got me thinking about words that might work across a community:

Inclusivity – Especially in Owatonna, which is growing and changing, it’s good to be reminded that we are all one community.

Volunteerism – Nonprofits across Steele County would appreciate this, wouldn’t they?

Stewardship – Public resources from government budgets to the management of public land, need our attention, but so do our neighborhoods and our own backyards.

Collaboration – In a world where so many of us are increasingly lonely and isolated, this word can take on a meaning that is more personal, with shared meals, neighborhood projects, intergenerational events.

But the word I think we will need most this year – the word I’ve chosen – is empathy: the ability to understand and share the feelings of others. I’ll think of it when I’m waiting in line at an understaffed business or getting frustrated with someone who is less than kind.

And I will take to heart these words from author Sue Patton Thoele:

"Empathy is simply giving another person the dignity of being understood."